Three States of Sub
| |You have a duty to your submissive. They operate in three states while under your care. This is from the perspective of those that operate in a 24⁄7 relationship.
- in Need
- in Service
- in Waiting
in Need
This is where your sub is the most fun. Full of energy, in sub space, needs to come, craving getting off, craving getting you off. You have built up their desire and excitement enough they will do what you want.
in Service
This is the mid stage where you are building excitement in your sub and they are committed to your relationship. This is sucking cock when they are not into it, letting you use her holes despite her disinterest in having sex right now, taking your belt in hopes it will build their excitement but they know you need to give it to them.
in Waiting
The lowest stage to be in. This is where your sub does not feel the connection. Maybe it is bills, kids, work, or just fuckin’ tired. Do not let them stay here to long, this is where YOUR RESPONSIBILITY is. Pull her back into service, start building her toward in Need